If love was a person , how we might define her personality ? Indeed,
there is a very simple answer , the person of Jesus Christ - God is
love - can come to know the personality of love, carpenter happens is to
control your life. The
person who was both human and God incarnate love of the nature of time ,
and maybe this love was a central quality which, once fed, make love,
this is love.
This character quality is safety, the ability to create people the feeling of a safe haven through us. Certainly not the one who came to Jesus in humility might have feared . He was meek and lowly in heart, and took care of people with kindness and grace - especially that of others. He was safe with him . And the Spirit of God is sure to be there today.
Our lesson if we want to be more loving , is to become more accessible, friendly , and really safe to be around.
We can not be good to love others if there is a threat that can harm us. The way to go beyond being hurt is to do our healing work with the Lord. When
we are left with no stone unturned in relation to our fears , failures
and shortcomings of the devil set up and cause enough chaos that we can
not be safe for others.
We can not be sure for others if we are sure of ourselves first.
We got us pretty sure that children come to us without hesitation - and for good reason. Too many children , however, have approached or been coaxed by adults who are not trustworthy. Too many children are and have been abused. Of course , violence is exactly the opposite of love .
The person who can love has its internal work to a point where they can be themselves without having to wear a mask.
The personality of love can be described in one word : security. The
reliability of the safety caution , another mentality , and perhaps
most importantly , is what makes us stand for just cause . It would be nice to relax in a secure environment.
Is Romance a Thing of the Past?
Remember your first love? That feeling you used to get in the pit of the stomach, where it felt as if I had a million butterflies trying to break free ? Every time he passed the palms and sweat , pulse, and was stuttering like an idiot would start .
It seems that in today's society , this feeling disappeared. We see the romance and sex as if it were a common thing . Movies, ads in magazines and reality TV depict these things everywhere. This emphasis on sex did we lose that youthful innocence that was present a few decades ago ? Young women used to get excited about the fact that the teen would try to attract with flowers and gifts. You could hear the stories of their grandparents about how they met and all that followed pursuers. He looked so romantic and exciting air and could not wait to be this girl with a handsome young man after his affections .
In this modern world, however, these actions are rare. Songs where women are called vulgar names and television depict women as a sex toy that can be used is heard. Even magazines have articles that seek to learn about the latest sex position or how to turn a man. Of course, we wanted to be treated as equals , but in turn , we became just a hobby . Our young generation is growing much faster than expected . At 13 years old, who are already concerned about the opposite as if they were in their 20s sex. When they reach the right age to start really thinking about a serious relationship, and grew bored of them. So we turn to romance novels . They intrigue us with their stories of love and dating . We want something similar to us , but we started to think that anyone in this world as well . It seems that we 've been through them and not once anything remotely like that found .
We can not keep our locked around them every day children, but what else are we supposed to do? We have control over what they are already doing ? Are we setting a bad example by exposing them to all documents related to adults or is it the way it should be ? If our generation is aware of these things, or do we wait until they are more mature ?
It seems that in today's society , this feeling disappeared. We see the romance and sex as if it were a common thing . Movies, ads in magazines and reality TV depict these things everywhere. This emphasis on sex did we lose that youthful innocence that was present a few decades ago ? Young women used to get excited about the fact that the teen would try to attract with flowers and gifts. You could hear the stories of their grandparents about how they met and all that followed pursuers. He looked so romantic and exciting air and could not wait to be this girl with a handsome young man after his affections .
In this modern world, however, these actions are rare. Songs where women are called vulgar names and television depict women as a sex toy that can be used is heard. Even magazines have articles that seek to learn about the latest sex position or how to turn a man. Of course, we wanted to be treated as equals , but in turn , we became just a hobby . Our young generation is growing much faster than expected . At 13 years old, who are already concerned about the opposite as if they were in their 20s sex. When they reach the right age to start really thinking about a serious relationship, and grew bored of them. So we turn to romance novels . They intrigue us with their stories of love and dating . We want something similar to us , but we started to think that anyone in this world as well . It seems that we 've been through them and not once anything remotely like that found .
We can not keep our locked around them every day children, but what else are we supposed to do? We have control over what they are already doing ? Are we setting a bad example by exposing them to all documents related to adults or is it the way it should be ? If our generation is aware of these things, or do we wait until they are more mature ?
Is It Love, Sympathy or Empathy?
Nobody
can deny the fact that he / she did not know of "love " or sympathy or
empathy for someone in this world came into existence . The real question is , what is " love" , sympathy or empathy that you are getting the same person own ? Now
a day , many have misquoted "love" for sympathy and empathy sympathy in
relationships and many confidants , friends, family and colleagues
around the circles , the partners do not really know that they want in a relationship. It is time for human beings should be able to distinguish between "love" , sympathy and empathy in a given ratio .
"Love" , sympathy and empathy are developed and are expressed primarily in the family, in the "love" between friends and relatives in the "Love" couples solidarity of the family, which can be considered as the core around which the group develops a broad sense . "Love" and empathy extend the house to the broader social organizations and, ultimately , society as a whole , the people, the nation.
Bible, "love" is " the deliberate of the sacrificial action for another engagement. " Strong support "love" emotions, and commitment is "love" sign of change . Emotions may change, but the commitment to "" love "" a biblical and hard way is the mark of a disciple of Christ. In Corinthians 13:4-6 "Love" is patient and is kind ; "love" is not envious, "love" does not boast, it is not proud , does not rude, it not seek its own, is not provoked , grudge, does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices with the truth. "
Empathy is the ability to recognize the emotions that are experienced by another being sensitive or fictitious . With empathy, you have to have a certain amount of knowledge before to experience sympathy or base needed to walk in other shoes compassion , enter the frame of reference of another person or be able to know the life that the other person makes the person who enters the world of thoughts , feelings , emotions and meanings. Although the word empathy does not appear in the Bible , but the Bible is not indirectly refers to the characteristics of the manifestation of empathy , defined as " the ability to share other emotions and feelings " (1 Peter 3 : 8 ) .
The person must empathize requires private world of another person as his / her own , but remembering the "as if" part . This means being able to feel the joy of another person, fear and confusion without their own feelings of joy, fear or confusion is involved in the case. It simply means being able to have a very clear vision of another person's experience .
Sympathy for the other side is a feeling and concern for another person's well- being. It is also the tendency to help others in order to prevent or alleviate their suffering. Sympathy and empathy are not related to "love" in the blood. Empathy is always good relationship is contextually good but "love" dominates . You can have one without the other. Suppose someone came up with a problem, can have sympathy for a vague understanding of the feelings of the other person. You can also understand exactly how a person feels unwell and is not yet able to help him / her.
It may be an accurate and empathetic person still has his freedom to share a specific emotional state with another person in a way that looks best if the distribution is to help others or not . You can be very empathetic and have options at the same time . However, when "love" is mistaken for empathy ? Well just when you 've only been addressed then presumed to be "love" each other, because they are in financial difficulties , facing trials and temptations , being sick and admitted to hospital or stressed in some respects.
They describe as "love" "themselves when they are in circumstances that are out of control and was fear in his shoulder. Unfortunately, this can start a pattern of behavior in which the individual feels that it is the only viable way that can extract the "love " of others. "Love" placed on the quote obviously means that what you get is not "love" at all. Such empathy and sympathy that the individual attempts to bring to the minds of others feelings.
Thus, the person brings to the minds of others , have taken the position that a dam on the other . And about the person look helpless and believe that their instinct to be such. In addition, the person who is thinking of others trying to create the conditions for others to think he / she feels responsible for them in how to handle . They believe that this is important because they have never experienced the "love" reception contrary therefore fundamentally believe they will love. It is also one of the reasons why many relationships fail . So how can a problem " love " ? For we must recognize that the problem is love sympathy and compassion and empathy should know their roots. Knowing the root of the problem , the carrier in a position to know who you are and what you want in life.
You can not have misquoted love of sympathy and compassion for love. If you want a real relationship, then you must understand the need to try to manipulate sympathy and empathy for your partner, confidants , friends , family , and peers through the circles and go in love .
"Love" , sympathy and empathy are developed and are expressed primarily in the family, in the "love" between friends and relatives in the "Love" couples solidarity of the family, which can be considered as the core around which the group develops a broad sense . "Love" and empathy extend the house to the broader social organizations and, ultimately , society as a whole , the people, the nation.
Bible, "love" is " the deliberate of the sacrificial action for another engagement. " Strong support "love" emotions, and commitment is "love" sign of change . Emotions may change, but the commitment to "" love "" a biblical and hard way is the mark of a disciple of Christ. In Corinthians 13:4-6 "Love" is patient and is kind ; "love" is not envious, "love" does not boast, it is not proud , does not rude, it not seek its own, is not provoked , grudge, does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices with the truth. "
Empathy is the ability to recognize the emotions that are experienced by another being sensitive or fictitious . With empathy, you have to have a certain amount of knowledge before to experience sympathy or base needed to walk in other shoes compassion , enter the frame of reference of another person or be able to know the life that the other person makes the person who enters the world of thoughts , feelings , emotions and meanings. Although the word empathy does not appear in the Bible , but the Bible is not indirectly refers to the characteristics of the manifestation of empathy , defined as " the ability to share other emotions and feelings " (1 Peter 3 : 8 ) .
The person must empathize requires private world of another person as his / her own , but remembering the "as if" part . This means being able to feel the joy of another person, fear and confusion without their own feelings of joy, fear or confusion is involved in the case. It simply means being able to have a very clear vision of another person's experience .
Sympathy for the other side is a feeling and concern for another person's well- being. It is also the tendency to help others in order to prevent or alleviate their suffering. Sympathy and empathy are not related to "love" in the blood. Empathy is always good relationship is contextually good but "love" dominates . You can have one without the other. Suppose someone came up with a problem, can have sympathy for a vague understanding of the feelings of the other person. You can also understand exactly how a person feels unwell and is not yet able to help him / her.
It may be an accurate and empathetic person still has his freedom to share a specific emotional state with another person in a way that looks best if the distribution is to help others or not . You can be very empathetic and have options at the same time . However, when "love" is mistaken for empathy ? Well just when you 've only been addressed then presumed to be "love" each other, because they are in financial difficulties , facing trials and temptations , being sick and admitted to hospital or stressed in some respects.
They describe as "love" "themselves when they are in circumstances that are out of control and was fear in his shoulder. Unfortunately, this can start a pattern of behavior in which the individual feels that it is the only viable way that can extract the "love " of others. "Love" placed on the quote obviously means that what you get is not "love" at all. Such empathy and sympathy that the individual attempts to bring to the minds of others feelings.
Thus, the person brings to the minds of others , have taken the position that a dam on the other . And about the person look helpless and believe that their instinct to be such. In addition, the person who is thinking of others trying to create the conditions for others to think he / she feels responsible for them in how to handle . They believe that this is important because they have never experienced the "love" reception contrary therefore fundamentally believe they will love. It is also one of the reasons why many relationships fail . So how can a problem " love " ? For we must recognize that the problem is love sympathy and compassion and empathy should know their roots. Knowing the root of the problem , the carrier in a position to know who you are and what you want in life.
You can not have misquoted love of sympathy and compassion for love. If you want a real relationship, then you must understand the need to try to manipulate sympathy and empathy for your partner, confidants , friends , family , and peers through the circles and go in love .
When Will I Find My True Love?
Yesterday,
I was drowning in the boredom of my fears of a relationship that I
would go , and as such , I found myself talking to friends depressed
their bitter love life and realize all unrequited love
me (especially the sad case of a child who has had a crush on a friend
of a friend for years and even if I could see what I could everyone in
the restaurant, which was beyond oblivious to it ) . But
most importantly , as I had heard a whole person , " when I will find
my true love? " Directed how a negative connotation to this question. Not once have positively to this question.
However, my training in law of attraction I cried , of course , nobody in the right mood to find your true love is thinking, " When will I find my true love? " It is a matter of despair . It is a question of lack . A question of distance , time, opportunity , sensitivity, faith ... None of them or to question them. Anyone who knows the law of attraction ( I love Esther Hicks definition , "what you think and feel and what we get are always a party " ) , knows that this is not the right mindset search for love. So I got to thinking , thinking " when I find my true love? " And the thought of it in the most positive way possible?
And then it occurred to me while playing Super Smash Brothers Melee for the 800th time ( I was practicing for a tournament ) Mario is a hero like that. He rushes to new worlds and risk everything to save his true love - the point of destroying brick walls with her head , difficulty breathing dragon monster fire turtles jumping weapons ...
Mario March triumphant through each world as the only world - the world is that we must overcome to save his princess. And then I remember Knight Kierkegaard faith because no matter what , no matter how much you fail or how much I lack faith that can win the game , Mario never stops , nor do we low - he believes 100 % in its purpose and never wavers . Never break a scene Mario and shout , " when I will find my true love Where is ?" He never asks , "Who is my true love ? " He knows .
Sorry disappointment for him . We feel the need to settle - just beat all the levels , and it will only get harder ... and it was perfect princess there , and stored in this world and ... But Mario never gives up. Triumphal music, see the princess, she thanks him , and it is because " our princess is in another castle . " He focused on what he wants and goes after it is placed.
And although some of my feminist friends think Mario is a male archetype that a princess is not a reward ( a feeling that I totally agree with ), I hope you can see what he has to be this way (especially since you would love to save you if a turtle - Dragon you removed, you do not think you know what I 'd do - especially if dressed as Mario ) . However, on a deeper level , I mean more symbolic anyway : Mario has a unique focus on the love he wants and lets nothing stand in his way. Her faith never wavered , and although it is often not save the princess (dating the wrong people) , it does so with a grace and honest approach to heart . And despite the question : " When will I find my true love, " asked to think only time - how long until we are together again How long until ? I find my true love ?
It is a perfect example of using the law of attraction : you know what you want , imagine to get it, and destroyed each "block" ( and fungi boomerang projection and turtles and ... ) on its way ...
However, my training in law of attraction I cried , of course , nobody in the right mood to find your true love is thinking, " When will I find my true love? " It is a matter of despair . It is a question of lack . A question of distance , time, opportunity , sensitivity, faith ... None of them or to question them. Anyone who knows the law of attraction ( I love Esther Hicks definition , "what you think and feel and what we get are always a party " ) , knows that this is not the right mindset search for love. So I got to thinking , thinking " when I find my true love? " And the thought of it in the most positive way possible?
And then it occurred to me while playing Super Smash Brothers Melee for the 800th time ( I was practicing for a tournament ) Mario is a hero like that. He rushes to new worlds and risk everything to save his true love - the point of destroying brick walls with her head , difficulty breathing dragon monster fire turtles jumping weapons ...
Mario March triumphant through each world as the only world - the world is that we must overcome to save his princess. And then I remember Knight Kierkegaard faith because no matter what , no matter how much you fail or how much I lack faith that can win the game , Mario never stops , nor do we low - he believes 100 % in its purpose and never wavers . Never break a scene Mario and shout , " when I will find my true love Where is ?" He never asks , "Who is my true love ? " He knows .
Sorry disappointment for him . We feel the need to settle - just beat all the levels , and it will only get harder ... and it was perfect princess there , and stored in this world and ... But Mario never gives up. Triumphal music, see the princess, she thanks him , and it is because " our princess is in another castle . " He focused on what he wants and goes after it is placed.
And although some of my feminist friends think Mario is a male archetype that a princess is not a reward ( a feeling that I totally agree with ), I hope you can see what he has to be this way (especially since you would love to save you if a turtle - Dragon you removed, you do not think you know what I 'd do - especially if dressed as Mario ) . However, on a deeper level , I mean more symbolic anyway : Mario has a unique focus on the love he wants and lets nothing stand in his way. Her faith never wavered , and although it is often not save the princess (dating the wrong people) , it does so with a grace and honest approach to heart . And despite the question : " When will I find my true love, " asked to think only time - how long until we are together again How long until ? I find my true love ?
It is a perfect example of using the law of attraction : you know what you want , imagine to get it, and destroyed each "block" ( and fungi boomerang projection and turtles and ... ) on its way ...
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