Is It Love, Sympathy or Empathy?

Nobody can deny the fact that he / she did not know of "love " or sympathy or empathy for someone in this world came into existence . The real question is , what is " love" , sympathy or empathy that you are getting the same person own ? Now a day , many have misquoted "love" for sympathy and empathy sympathy in relationships and many confidants , friends, family and colleagues around the circles , the partners do not really know that they want in a relationship. It is time for human beings should be able to distinguish between "love" , sympathy and empathy in a given ratio .

"Love" , sympathy and empathy are developed and are expressed primarily in the family, in the "love" between friends and relatives in the "Love" couples solidarity of the family, which can be considered as the core around which the group develops a broad sense . "Love" and empathy extend the house to the broader social organizations and, ultimately , society as a whole , the people, the nation.

Bible, "love" is " the deliberate of the sacrificial action for another engagement. " Strong support "love" emotions, and commitment is "love" sign of change . Emotions may change, but the commitment to "" love "" a biblical and hard way is the mark of a disciple of Christ. In Corinthians 13:4-6 "Love" is patient and is kind ; "love" is not envious, "love" does not boast, it is not proud , does not rude, it not seek its own, is not provoked , grudge, does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices with the truth. "

Empathy is the ability to recognize the emotions that are experienced by another being sensitive or fictitious . With empathy, you have to have a certain amount of knowledge before to experience sympathy or base needed to walk in other shoes compassion , enter the frame of reference of another person or be able to know the life that the other person makes the person who enters the world of thoughts , feelings , emotions and meanings. Although the word empathy does not appear in the Bible , but the Bible is not indirectly refers to the characteristics of the manifestation of empathy , defined as " the ability to share other emotions and feelings " (1 Peter 3 : 8 ) .

The person must empathize requires private world of another person as his / her own , but remembering the "as if" part . This means being able to feel the joy of another person, fear and confusion without their own feelings of joy, fear or confusion is involved in the case. It simply means being able to have a very clear vision of another person's experience .

Sympathy for the other side is a feeling and concern for another person's well- being. It is also the tendency to help others in order to prevent or alleviate their suffering. Sympathy and empathy are not related to "love" in the blood. Empathy is always good relationship is contextually good but "love" dominates . You can have one without the other. Suppose someone came up with a problem, can have sympathy for a vague understanding of the feelings of the other person. You can also understand exactly how a person feels unwell and is not yet able to help him / her.

It may be an accurate and empathetic person still has his freedom to share a specific emotional state with another person in a way that looks best if the distribution is to help others or not . You can be very empathetic and have options at the same time . However, when "love" is mistaken for empathy ? Well just when you 've only been addressed then presumed to be "love" each other, because they are in financial difficulties , facing trials and temptations , being sick and admitted to hospital or stressed in some respects.

They describe as "love" "themselves when they are in circumstances that are out of control and was fear in his shoulder. Unfortunately, this can start a pattern of behavior in which the individual feels that it is the only viable way that can extract the "love " of others. "Love" placed on the quote obviously means that what you get is not "love" at all. Such empathy and sympathy that the individual attempts to bring to the minds of others feelings.

Thus, the person brings to the minds of others , have taken the position that a dam on the other . And about the person look helpless and believe that their instinct to be such. In addition, the person who is thinking of others trying to create the conditions for others to think he / she feels responsible for them in how to handle . They believe that this is important because they have never experienced the "love" reception contrary therefore fundamentally believe they will love. It is also one of the reasons why many relationships fail . So how can a problem " love " ? For we must recognize that the problem is love sympathy and compassion and empathy should know their roots. Knowing the root of the problem , the carrier in a position to know who you are and what you want in life.

You can not have misquoted love of sympathy and compassion for love. If you want a real relationship, then you must understand the need to try to manipulate sympathy and empathy for your partner, confidants , friends , family , and peers through the circles and go in love .